by Alisa | April 18, 2018 | Co-Parenting Blog
You started out with good intentions. You partnered with someone. You decided to walk the path of parenthood, and you intended for it all to be good and right. And then things fell apart. You didn’t know how to fix it or you recognized that it wasn’t fixable. You...
by Alisa | March 4, 2018 | Co-Parenting Blog
Co-parenting, especially when there is conflict, is very emotional. Often, if not always, co-parents try to resolve issues when they’re in emotionally reactive states, and that is almost always a set-up for disaster. WATCH THE VIDEO! You see, when we are in...
by Alisa | October 19, 2017 | Co-Parenting Blog, Inspiration for all Parents
We all want to be wise parents, but parenting is emotional business and if your emotions are out of control, you will be anything but wise. Some parents struggle with challenging children. Divorced parents may struggle with challenging co-parents, or both. These...
by Alisa | September 22, 2017 | Co-Parenting Blog
Our brains have what’s called a negativity bias. That is, our brains are much more likely to “take in” negative experience than positive experience. Neuropsychologist Rick Hanson says that our brains are like velcro for negative experience and like teflon for positive...
by Alisa | August 18, 2017 | Co-Parenting Blog
“Disneyland co-parent” is the term that has been used to describe a divorced co-parent who indulges their children with gifts and vacations, without taking the day to day parenting responsibility. If you have a Disneyland co-parent, it is likely to cause...
by Alisa | July 28, 2017 | Co-Parenting Blog
It can be difficult, if not devastating, to spend time away from our children. We bring children into this world expecting to spend time with them, to be with them every day. We expect to eat dinner with them, to hear about their day, to read to them before they go to...