Lesson 2 Quiz Freedom Court-Ordered

Question 1 of 10

When we are in a reactive desire, we:

can't think straight and are often working against our core desires.
we are thinking clearly, because our anger gives us clarity.
are having a good reaction and should take it seriously.
are almost certainly working toward our core desires.

Question 2 of 10

Emotional reactivity is useful when

When we are trying to get our co-parent to listen to us
There is a real crisis
When we are really angry
When we know we're right

Question 3 of 10

What’s the difference between a secondary and core desire?

Secondary desires are more trustworthy than core desires.
Core desires are at the heart of what we want, whereas secondary desires are the desires we think will create our core desire.
Core desires are less important than secondary desires.
Secondary desires are at the core of what we want, whereas core desires are the desires we think will create our secondary desires.

Question 4 of 10

In the story “Be Careful What you Wish For” the main character Tim:

Wished that his ex and her husband would be unhappy, and was very happy when it turned out that.
Wished that his children would only live with him.
Got his wish, but then realized that was not the best thing for his children.
Wished that he would find a spouse that his children really liked.

Question 5 of 10

The most important thing we can do to cultivate relationship with our children and help them develop in a healthy manner is:

Take them to Disneyland every year.
Make sure they have a really great birthday party every year.
Buy them lots and lots of great stuff.
Be attuned to them.

Question 6 of 10

Why is it so important to know our core desires?

So we can make sure that we are actions are working toward what we actually want.
So that we don't inadvertently create something other than what we intend to create.
So that we don't make secondary goals our primary focus.
All of the above.

Question 7 of 10

What is the difference between a reactive desire and a grounded desire?

Reactive desires are the things we want when we are in the midst of an emotional reaction, and grounded desires are things we want when we are not in emotionally reactive states.
Reactive desires are more beneficial than grounded desires.
Grounded desires occur when we are upset whereas reactive desires occur when we are calm.
Reactive desires usually get us to our core desires, whereas grounded desires don't.

Question 8 of 10

Divorced co-parents often make the mistake of confusing secondary desires for core desires.

True
False

Question 9 of 10

Which of the following is both a grounded desire and a core desire

I want my children to know that my co-parent is to blame for our divorce.
I want my children to be emotionally healthy and happy
I want my ex to suffer for the things they did to me.
I want my children to know that I am the better parent.

Question 10 of 10

It is always important for our children to know who is the good guy and who is the bad guy.

True
False

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